by admin | Aug 6, 2025 | Uncategorized
As a feng shui consultant, I have found that more and more people are living in smaller spaces. Yes, I have the people downsizing when the kids fly out of the nest. And I have also found that there are more multigeneration families living together, in spaces that are separated or adding mother-in-law units to their property. More people are considering tiny homes as their main living situation, and I have worked with many folks who are in a house sharing situation with people who are just roommates, not family or friends. I have even worked with clients living on boats.
The Dorm Drama!
This time of year, there are many young folks heading off to their first living space outside the family home… their dorm room or studio apartment. In terms of feng shui there are some key points that make much more sense in these small home situations.
Be In Command!
Command position in when you can be in the space, with your back to a solid wall, and facing or easily seeing the main door into the room. Without command position it is hard to feel relaxed, focused, study or sleep well. It also sends a signal out ot the world, that you are NOT in charge. Sitting with your back exposed in the room is not being in command, or having your headboard on the same wall as the door is also a problem. And, these situations are common in dorm rooms or studios, in order to sometimes save on space. Optimally, rearranging the furniture to achieve command position is best(see the floor plan suggestions), here are some solutions if you cannot.
- Desk: Use a high-backed chair to feel protected from the open space or movement behind you.
- Desk: Place a small mirror at the desk to be able to see what is going on behind you.
- Bed: Have a nightstand or other object between the bed and the door
- Bed: Move the bed so that your head is further from the door
Focus on What You Want! In small spaces, perhaps more important that the bagua details is thinking about the overall life you want to achieve and goals that you have. Random objects and their energy can create more chaos in the space, and in your life. Representing your dreams in the space should be the overall goal in what you have in the space in terms of function and beauty.
- Declutter and edit collections: In small spaces, you need to keep just what represents you at this time and moving forward. Momentos of the past can be there, but should not be the main décor or storage space.
- Choose your art carefully: The symbolic power of photographs, posters and other art place a huge impact on your space. Images and words can create positive energy or also can create negative impacts. Photographs should be of people at a happy time in their life. Artwork should be uplifting and supportive of how someone wants to feel. And choosing art that has nature imagery or nature inspired patterns and forms provides the most healing and restful spaces.
- In small spaces, and shared spaces, don’t’ forget to use the power of clothing to feng shui supportive. Using clothing in the colors from the bagua represent how you want to feel, or also how you want to be perceived as ways to be supported through your day. When choosing clothing, be wary of words. Trendy fun and funny shirts might make you laugh but may also be shifting your energy in ways that does not support your goals.
Create Expansiveness! Make a small space look bigger with the use of cohesive color schemes. This will also achieve more peaceful feeling. Cohesive means choosing a tone on tone neutral scheme, or just two colors. Color drenching is fun and popular, but every color holds an energy. While they might be gorgeous, avoid dramatic dark color drenching in rooms, when that is the only room you live in. I tend to recommend using earth tones as central color scheme in one room living, to create a feeling of cozy nurturing. This can range from light tans, to peachy browns, to deep dark chocolate colors on the floor. Then another color can be brought in as pops of color, and these can be items that are easily changes out seasonally, or when you crave a different feeling in the space. Using LED lights that change the colors in your room can bring you that variety when needed, when you keep everything else neutral in the space.
Feel Safe: While it’s not always address in feng shui, feeling safe is one of the key aspects of feeling supported and at home. Create safety through physical locks, potentially using inexpensive video cameras to keep an eye on your space outside and in. In energy realms of safety, work with stones and crystals that create energy protection. My favorites are Selenite, and Black tourmaline. You will also want to keep the energy of your space feeling clear all the time, so Salt lamps can be an excellent addition to keep your space feeling great.
Emf and other 21st century hazards. When you are in a small space to live in, there is the potentials that you are a lot closer to invisible hazards such as EMFS from electronics or even electrical panel boxes on the other side of the wall; WiFi signals, and have your computer and blue tooth devices all sending lots of signals around you. Earthing sheets can help you not only ground at night, but create a protective energy blanket shielding you at night. Turn your phone on airplane mode when you sleep to cut down on the cell signals near you, and turn off all the electronics at night.
Moving into a small space can feel cozy and freeing, as well as very supportive when arranged with attention to these suggestions! If you would like to have a personal a consultation on your small space, I would be delighted to support you!
by admin | Jun 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
I want to tell you a Story
More than 10 years ago, the opportunity arose to purchase the farm land next to us. It had been constantly farmed, and always with GMO products, and pesticides. We had asked the farmer renting the land to please not use the pesticides, but he felt it was the only way he could produce enough crops. I know that poison blew onto our land, made our dog Ranger ill, and we were always concerned about our well water.
We jumped on that opportunity to purchase the land. We informed the rental farmer that he would only be able to farm the land if he used non-GMO seeds and no pesticides, and he said very quickly that he would not be renting and farming under those conditions.
We were fine with that… and we looked forward to having that beautiful land heal itself, to allow the soil to regenerate. We wanted to see what could happen when the land and it’s creatures were not being poisoned.
The following spring we were amazed.
One of the first signs of new life on the land was an old pear tree, one that we actually thought was dead, as we had never seen leaves on it, sprang into full blossoming beauty.
She was overjoyed at not being poisoned anymore!
That year we saw more butterflies than ever and even had a delightful plague of tiny frogs! And we now have the most amazing selection of birds that flock to our land!
Walking on that land, called the Magical Meadow, and leading small groups on quests and forest bathing experiences, the land welcomes people, and to this day holds an energy of joy.
I know that land, the trees and creatures on it are grateful. I think they do know that we are it’s caretakers now, and that all of those beings share their joy with our clients and students!
If you love nature, love to help people, family members, or just want to treat yourself, you might want to learn the practice of Forest Therapy,
and lead yourself and others on these healing and magical experiences.
You can join the self led course ANYTIME!
by admin | Jun 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
I am a proud mama .. or I feel like one when my graduates go on to do fabulous things!
I’m especially proud of this group of Forest Therapy Practitioners from MSU Tollgate farms in Michigan. This group took the certification program initially to be able to offer Forest Bathing experiences to specialty populations.
You can read more about their program and it’s success here
If you love nature,
love to help people,
family members,
or just yourself,
you might want to learn the practice of Forest Therapy,
and lead yourself and others on these healing and magical experiences.
You can join the self led course ANYTIME!
by admin | Oct 15, 2024 | Uncategorized
Halloween Magic: Decorating with Feng Shui in Mind
Halloween decorating has become second only to Christmas in popularity across the USA, with 82% of people getting into the spooky spirit. In 2023 alone, over $3.9 billion was spent on Halloween decorations!
While I love the excitement of decorating for this magical season, there are a few Halloween tricks that aren’t quite a “treat” for good feng shui! Feng shui uses symbolism, color, and arrangement to create feelings of abundance, comfort, and security—energies we definitely want to welcome into our homes, even during spooky season.
So, what decorations can bring positive chi to your home and family during this holiday, when the veil between worlds is thin and we can connect with spirit and magic?
Feng Shui-Approved Halloween Décor:
- Harvest Colors & Seasonal Items
Think acorns, pumpkins, and fall leaves. These natural elements bring in the grounding energy of the season and honor the cycle of nature, inspiring feelings of abundance and prosperity. Plus, they create a warm and inviting atmosphere that celebrates the harvest.
- Altars & Remembrance for the Beloved Departed
While front yard tombstones may not be ideal feng shui, creating a beautiful indoor altar to honor your loved ones who have passed is a deeply comforting gesture. Display photos, their favorite foods or candies, candles, and meaningful religious symbols. This sacred space not only lets your ancestors know they are remembered and cherished but also offers you a sense of connection and peace.
- Black Cats, Owls, Bats & Ravens
These creatures may seem spooky to some, but they are symbols of magic, mystery, and wisdom. In feng shui, they act as protectors, watching over your home and lending their insight and strength to the space. Think of them as your mystical guardians, keeping unwanted energies at bay.
Decorations to Avoid for Good Feng Shui:
- Haunted House Vibes
Décor that makes your home look abandoned or in disrepair—like broken windows, cobwebs, or a “haunted” appearance—can negatively impact the energy of your home. In feng shui, we strive to keep things clean, functional, and well-maintained. If you lean into the “run-down” look, you might find your finances, reputation, or sense of progress stalling.
- Scary Skeletons
While many cultures use decorated skulls to honor the dead, especially during Día de los Muertos, frightening skeletons and symbols of death bring too much “yin” (death energy) into your space. You don’t want to invite the Grim Reaper to the party!
- Horror Story Front Yards
While it might be fun to create a terrifying display, surrounding your home with the energy of fear isn’t ideal. In feng shui, we want our homes to radiate light and positive energy. The darker forces feed on fear, and that’s not something you want lingering around your space.
Halloween: A Time for Spirit, Magic & Inner Wisdom
Halloween is one of the most magical times of the year, when the spirits we encounter are often our beloved ancestors, coming to say hello. It’s a time to connect with your own inner wisdom, seek insight through dreams, and reflect on the lessons of the past year.
This Thursday’s full moon carries the energy of both abundance (Harvest Moon) and action. It’s a perfect time to reflect on the steps you can take to make the upcoming year your best yet. Let the magic of the season guide and inspire you!
How are you decorating this seasons? Send me photos!
Luann@inner-harmony.org
by admin | Feb 2, 2024 | Uncategorized
Embrace Change and Empower Yourself!
Life is a journey filled with transitions, from the joy of welcoming new life into the world to the bittersweet moment of sending children off to college, from the bliss of marriage to the challenges of divorce. These pivotal moments can leave us feeling adrift, searching for meaning and clarity in the midst of change. If you find yourself at a crossroads, wondering how to navigate the shifts in your life with grace and purpose, perhaps it’s time to consider embarking on a transformative journey through Soul Coaching® certification.
What is Soul Coaching®, you might ask? At its core, Soul Coaching® is a profound process of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment. It goes beyond traditional life coaching by delving into the depths of your soul, helping you connect with your inner wisdom, and guiding you to live authentically and passionately.
For women at changing points in their lives – whether it’s the exhilarating adventure of motherhood, the transition to an empty nest, the complexities of marriage, or the challenging path of divorce – Soul Coaching® offers invaluable tools to navigate these transitions with resilience and grace.
Here’s how Soul Coaching® can empower you during these transformative times:
- Clarity Amidst Chaos: In the midst of life’s changes, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and uncertain about the path ahead. Soul Coaching® provides a safe space to explore your deepest desires, fears, and aspirations, helping you gain clarity about your goals and values.
- Healing and Renewal: Transition periods often bring up emotional wounds and unresolved issues from the past. Soul Coaching® offers powerful healing techniques and spiritual practices to release old patterns, heal emotional scars, and cultivate a sense of inner peace and renewal.
- Embracing Authenticity: Society often imposes expectations and norms that can obscure our true essence. Soul Coaching® encourages radical self-acceptance and authenticity, empowering you to embrace your unique gifts, passions, and purpose with confidence and courage.
As you stand at the threshold of change, know that you hold within you the wisdom, strength, and resilience to embrace life’s unfolding journey with grace and courage. Soul Coaching offers a profound invitation to embark on a transformative voyage of self-discovery, empowerment, and soulful living.
If you’re ready to embark on this empowering journey of self-discovery and transformation, consider enrolling in a Soul Coaching® certification course. Through a blend of experiential exercises, spiritual practices, and personalized coaching, you’ll embark on a profound inner journey that will not only transform your life but also empower you to guide others on their path to healing and wholeness. And then also be able to do this coaching with others.
Take the first step toward a more soulful, purposeful life – and potentially a new career– and join a community who are embracing change, reclaiming their power, and living authentically from the inside out. Your soul’s journey awaits.
by admin | Jan 22, 2024 | Uncategorized
We have lots of birdfeeders. That’s kind of a misnomer, as it’s more like an all you can eat buffet for the outdoor neighbors. Birds of all kinds (including turkeys), bunnies, mice, deer, chipmunks and squirrels all feast here. I’m lucky enough to see the customers at the buffet. And I have learned a lot about wildlife and their not so serious approach to life.
We know our pets like to play. They have favorite toys or games that they like us to play with them. I used to think ‘ah – of course! They have time to play as everything they need is supplied – food, water, shelter’. In some ways, I used to be jealous of them, with play as their sole ‘thing to do’. I compared it to my life, I am the person who doesn’t have time to play with them because I have to work; to pay for the food, water and shelter. (A bit of a martyr syndrome here… does it sound familiar?)
Then, I watched the wildlife…and I learned something big. I learned that even creatures that have to ‘earn a living’, made time to play. Deer play amazing games of catch-me-if-you-can and not always with other deer. I have seen them play this with cats and rabbits. They also eat, then find a nice place like under a pine tree to curl up and take a nap. Squirrels, known for their busy-ness with gathering supplies for winter, also take the time to play as well. It’s not an all-work attitude! Watching their acrobatics from tree to tree (or bird feeder to bird feeder) they love to test themselves! They also play with objects left outside, like corn cobs or tennis balls. They still get all their work done. Yet, they take those moments to just do things for the pure joy of it.
How can you inject playful joy into your life, and still do what you need to do?
Simple… think of three things that feel playful to you, and then make sure the toys/tools for this are handy! I have always had a serious love of colored Sharpies®. Coloring is a prime play activity for me. Back when I worked in the corporate world, using different colored markers in meeting notes was not only useful (such as all my action items in red), but felt like I was coloring… during ‘work time’. (And, yes, the occasional tiny cartoon character Unicorn would appear in the notes.) I have my childhood Barbie on my bookshelf, and a Stuffed animal Unicorn too.
It doesn’t always require a thing… just a mindset. At your next break, put on a song and do a little dance in the break room. If you work from home, you have more flexibility in how you allow play to weave into life. Don’t just scroll social media for play… do something that moves your body. Work on a LEGO, play ‘The Floor is Lava’, or toss the ball with your dog.
Can you ‘feng shui’ for play? Yes, you can! Placing toys or other playful objects in your workspace, can shift that mindset. Especially consider having a cute toy or toy in your bedroom, where you can be reminded every morning and evening that life should include play! Put your favorite dance tunes as background music in your home. Choose some artwork of people dancing or playing. Hang some of your own artistic creative and playful pieces. I had a Soul Coaching® client hang her coloring book artwork in frames in her home office, to remind her to play more. Not only did she love seeing her art, but it worked! She found more ways to work coloring into her day. More importantly she reported that work life was not as stressful, and life seemed more joyful!
Play is a part of nature. We are the most balanced when we live according to nature.
Be a squirrel!
How are you going to play today? Shoot me an email and let me know!
Luann@inner-harmony.org
